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IndieWeb Carnival December 2023 — Holiday and December traditions

2023-12-22 by Pablo Morales

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My December Traditions

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I really love the month of December. When the holidays approach, I get excited to see snow on the ground. There are so many celebrations and traditions that exist. For myself, I celebrate Mexican traditions and American celebrations. I live between the two cultures and grew up in the United States and have lived in Mexico. At my parents home, we celebrate as if we were in Mexico.

Every year is different. Sometimes I'm in Oaxaca during the month of December and sometimes I'm in the United States. We celebrate Mexican traditions there but more precisely, the Oaxacan traditions. I like to go see the dances and the parades. May I say it's heavenly go to the food markets and try all the delicious meals.

Mexican Traditions:

My family really likes cooking at home. We make many traditional dishes. We make tamales of various flavors, Mexican punch, mole, cakes, shrimp cocktails, and so much more. There's no limit. In this month, we don't normally eat out. Homemade food tastes so much better!

In the evenings, we relax and watch some holiday movies. We like to watch movies in Spanish, especially any of the classics. Every year we see Home Alone in Spanish because it's very funny. It hits differently in Spanish. Just being together is important. We can laugh as a family.

We do decorate our Christmas tree. We open the presents on the night of December 24. It's a traditon. It's always been like that.

United States Traditions:

I always make sure to meet up with my friends when I return to Nebraska. Now that we don't live near each other anymore, it's very important to be together when we are back in our hometowns. We check in with each other and see how our year went and what our goals are for the upcoming year. We build ginger houses and we have a party. What could go wrong? Depending on how the weather is, we're riding our longboards or we're going to skate park.

Im always excited for a night of programming fun. We just see where the night will take us. We make it our goal to stay up until dawn. It's a very nice thing to schedule something together. I think we're going to make a video game this year. Let's see what happens...

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IndieWeb Carnival en Diciembre 2023 — Tradiciones y Celebraciones de Diciembre

2023-12-22 by Pablo Morales

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Las Tradiciones de Diciembre

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Me encanta mucho el mes de Diciembre. Cuando se acerca la navidad, me gusta cuando hay nieve en el suelo. Me gustan las celebraciones y tradiciones en las que participó. Yo celebro tradiciones mexicanas y celebraciones estadounidenses. Yo vivo entre las dos culturas y crecí en los Estados Unidos y he vivido en México. En casa lo celebró como si estuviera en México.

Cada año es diferente. A veces estoy en Oaxaca durante el mes de diciembre y a veces estoy en Estados Unidos. Celebró ahí las tradiciones Mexicanas pero más precisamente, las tradiciones Oaxaqueñas. Me gusta ir a ver los bailes y los desfiles. Me gusta ir a los mercados de comida y probar todas las comidas deliciosas. Se nos hace agua en la boca.

Celebraciones Mexicanas:

En mi familia nos gusta mucho cocinar en casa. Hacemos muchos platillos tradicionales. Hacemos tamales de varios sabores, ponche mexicano, mole, pasteles, cocteles de camarón, y muchísimo más! No hay límite. En este mes, normalmente no comemos en la calle. ¡La comida en casa siempre es más rica!

En las noches siempre vemos unas películas de navidad. Nos gusta ver películas en Español. Cada año vemos Home Alone en español porque es muy chistosa. Simplemente estar juntos es importante. Podemos reír entre todos.

Siempre ponemos y arreglamos el árbol de navidad. Nosotros abrimos los regalos en la noche del 24 de diciembre. Siempre ha sido así.

Celebraciones Estadounidenses:

Siempre me reuno con mis amigos. Ahora que no vivimos en la misma región, es muy importante estar juntos. Hablamos como nos fue este año y que queremos cumplir para el año entrante. Algunas cosas que hacemos son casas de jengibres y tenemos una fiesta. Dependiendo como esté el clima, andamos en patineta o vamos al skatepark.

Lo que siempre me anima es la noche de programación. Hacemos un plan en que vamos a programar en una noche. Nos quedamos despiertos hasta la madrugada. Es algo muy bonito de programar algo juntos. Creo que este año vamos hacer un video juego. A ver como nos va.

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Liked: Walking the Heck out of Thailand

2023-12-16 by Pablo Morales

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Liked: Walking the Heck out of Thailand by Craig Mod

It was hot. I was sweating. We — were sweating. Had we ever sweat so much before? Did it matter? Our sweat had sweat. We were a moving swamp. The fabric bits on our backpacks had turned sentient. I wanted to apply bleach atop my sunscreen. Wanted to order replacement toenails. Because: we were walking. And by god, were we talking.

Such a great post! I felt like I was visualizing what was all around Craig and his perspective of the walk. Talk about a good boy (dog) that followed them for most of their trip to their final destination. What a beautiful story. I hope to write like this with so much elegance and detail. The post even share the .kml file to map out in Google Earth.

Reply to: Where Do You Call Home? by Jason Kottke

2023-12-16 by Pablo Morales

This post was written in en

In Reply to Where Do You Call Home? by Jason Kottke

Jason Kottke asks the following question and starts mentioning his struggle with the concept of home. He also asks his readers to answer the question

Where do you call home? And why?

I’ve been struggling with the concept of home for the past several years.

On the surface, this seems like a very simple question to answer but the answer can be be complex. For me, I take the complex route. I too have been struggling with this question. Home is where major moments have occured in my life.

I grew up in Nebraska which was home for 25+ years. I say this is one place I call home is due to the fact this is where I grew up. It's where I learned the norms of the Midwest and how it influenced my persona. Nebraska is home because this is where many of my friends I made in university still reside. I have many deep connections with others. I somehow always end up here such as the holidays and other important events. It's a very special place to me but it is not the place I cull my current home.

Mexico is also my home for the fact I've lived there on an off though out the years. I learned what is was like to be around non-Americans. Living in Mexico, I got meet so many family members. I learned more of the traditions of my people and how live in a community. I learned that this was a place of rich culture and rich gastronomy. I learned to not take things for granted. It's a place I call home because it allows me to be different person compared to my American self. For the record, I don't go to resorts, I stay in rural Mexico. This is a home I return to often. This home is important to my identity.

The home I consider currently now is in California. This is the first place I moved away to where I didn't go back to my parents' home after an extended leave such as a trip or going to university. I work here now and I have built out new relationships. I'm still pretty new here. Living in California has allowed me to be more of myself and allow me to express myself. This is home because I get to work on myself as well. When people ask me where am I based out of or where is my home is, I always say California.

I also ask the same question, "Where do you call home? And why?"

Round-Up of October 2023 IndieWeb Carnival

2023-11-04 by Pablo Morales

This post was written in en

October is a wrap! 🎃 I hosted October's IndieWeb Carnival on self-care. Thank you to everyone who participated in this month's IndieWeb Carnival topic. I appreciate all the responses I recieved. I recieved so many perspectives on the topic. I chose this theme as this is something I am working on improving for myself.

Carnival Stats

Responses
10
Happiness
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Responses

Sara Jakša - Using 4 E of Cognition to Conceptualise Self-Care

  • I really enjoyed the way way you structured your reponse using the 4 E of cognition: embodied, embedded, extended, and enactivistic. I really appreciate the approaches using your educational background to explain. It has really helped me see things in a different perspective. I agree that self-care is "a process to adapt my life". One must adapt. You're right, I can't ignore self-care because whether or not I felt I was ignoring it. I was doing it whether I admit it or not. I now see it as having a low battery. It had some juice. I realize now I was also scared of myself, nervous of outcomes, and more. I realized many things. I ignored my ehealth. I really enjoy how you ended the response, "do the self-care for the reason of your better wellbeing." I am doing this for myself.Thank you for being so straight foward and not beating around the bush.

Grigor Malo - Should we care about self-care?

  • I really enjoyed "[your] answer to the prompt" and the approach. I would agree with you some self-care/help guides do take the wrong approach. It often seems like how to appear to be fine on the outside but not actually on the inside. It's been hard in the pastto find self-care/help material related to my cultural background or for individuals who live in a multiculural life. There is no one size fits all. Hyper-individualism or individualism has been a conflicting thing for me. Why do we need to isolate ourself when things can also be experienced with other people as well. I also agree that action at the end of the day starts with the individual. "Caring about your self is a fundamentally selfish endeavour? Not really, or at least not if practiced properly." That is a beautifully written phrase. I share many of the same thoughts on wellness industry and the corporate wellness. You really put in the persepective how much we buy into capitalism to feel better about ourselves.

Frank Meeuwsen - Global PSC Awareness Day and selfcare

  • First, I like the multilingual approach created for this post. Thank you for sharing about Primary Sclerosing Cholangitis and your experience living with this disease. I really enjoy the approach you take. With self-care you learn to see things in a positive light. I agree with "to rest more and consciously slow down." This has been something I've been learning as well. It became unhealth and bad for mental health. Strecthing yourself thin is not feasible anymore. I appreciate you aspect on learning to take control of a situation. "I know I can affect it. I know now that I can change it." This resonates with me so much!

Jeremy Cherfasi - Self-care Success

  • I really your approach of enjoying the little and big things in life. I can agree that traveling has always been a way of self-care. A way to disconnect physically from the place one is based out of to a different environment. Self-care to you seems that you truly enjoy life and you genuinely enjoy the things you do such as biking, baking, etc. You wrote having "a sense of purpose and of mastery" is something I resonate with. I'm still trying to find my sense of purpose. I'm learning not to stretch myself thin an focus on the things I love. I love who you wish the drivers to take care of themselves

Tracy Durnell - Extending my understanding of self-care

  • Right off the bat, your approach on the "bigger whole" is a like a piece of the puzzle or a train network. If any of it is missing, it simply doesn't work well. Community is so important. Unforntunately we live in a very individualistic society and we need community more than ever. "So much of self-care is treating the symptoms rather than the source, because the source is systemic." I didn't think about it this way. I recently started going to therapy and I thought the goal was to get to the get to the root of the problem while hitting the symptoms like a ping pong. Thank you for sharing the books you mentioned in your response. There are so many self-care books it's hard to find where to start. I'm trying to get to the right path. Oh man, this is hits hard: "Showing up for our friends better, sometimes that means showing up for ourselves, and sometimes it’s shared." This makes me reflect, when I wasn't for there for myself, I wasn't there for my community in this case, my friends. If I wasn't Self-care shows that you can care for yourself and for others. This has been a year of improvement but so much I still have to reach. Thank you for sharing this perspective on community and individuals. This opened my eyes in so many ways.

Anthony Ciccarello - Creating space to feel my emotions

  • I can relate so much with Anthony's response. Right away, the second sentence, "My natural inclination is to bury my own emotions to protect my relationships" is very similar to what I've felt over the years. All at my expense. Bottling it all up just wears a peson down. I've been very hesitant about sharing that I've been seeing a therapist and how I've started to open up a lot more to people on what's happening in life. I really appreciate your emphasis and approach on the word, space. A space can have so many purposes. I've been learning how to use spaces inside and outside as more than being inside and outside. The space one uses can truly affect the outcomes of self-care. Spaces to think, spaces, to move, spaces to unwind, and a space to grow demonstrate healthy, safe, self-reflection and so much more.

Jo - Things to do offline

  • Jo does a great job at "kill[ing] two birds with one stone" by addressing the self-care prompt and a post I wrote on books. The response is amazing. I really like perspective on reading books. I don't discourage reading not matter the format. We live in a world where we have so many different mediums of reading. Reading away from anything that has a microchip of any kind is for me a form of reset. Just like you mentioned, sometimes the only way to get access to specific content is via digital means. Reading physical really helps reground and reconnect with the digital world. Having solo time and hanging out with people is great but a balance is necessary. You defintely don't want to go to far on the solo end or not having solo time and spending too much time with others. It's a preference in many aspects. I enjoyed your self-care activity list! I get lost with looking at vinyls at the record shop.

CJ - Self-Care and Routine

  • CJ has some great points on find things at are less "productive-feeling." For the longest time, doing things like watching Netflix or go to the movies, I felt that I was wasting time and I pushed these activities away. It's been hard just to disconnect from my obligations and I've come to the realizations that I need to sit my ass down and just relax. It's not necessary to be always engaged in things that are "productive." It's productive to let your mind engage in other things!

Alex Sirac - Improving our relationship to news

  • Alex has a written a great post on self-care by focusing on news consumption. Right away you wrote, "Not only do I spend too much time on the Internet – I spend way too much time consuming content and news." You took the words right out of my mouth. News isn't limited to listening to reading it online, or watching it on the television (or historically radio). Now the news in the 21st comes in so many different mediums such as podcasts. I've seen an increase of this negative news. It discourages me to use any form of social media, even decentralized social media. I want to ignore but it seems hard not to even if you don't click links. "Curating a me-friendly news experience" by "find[ing] the things that bring you joy and give your brain a break from the hate." It's important to step away from even if it's for a little while. We can't let it consume us to the core. It will make use dark and bitter. I catch myself becoming angry. You make a great point on finding the right sources and filtering things out by using an RSS reader. Even I as an avid New York Times and leftist news person, have to turn off my computer and throw my phone across the room to reattach myself to the world around me. It's got to the point where I have to go into my terminal and turn off the Docker container and turn of my RSS reader. There has to be a better way for everything. Support local journalism because we need to know what's happening in our hometowns and the places we live. We need to now what's happening in our communities to make a difference and become aware what's around us.

James G - Self Care

  • James wrote beautiful response regarding self-care. It is complicated! This has been something I've had to learn the hardway, "I know, deep down, that feeling is unsustainable: one can't be creative every day." We want to create more every damn day. It's not always feasible. I agree with the following, "I don't need to create new things all the time." The way I see it, is work on the things you are working on and give it your full attention in a reasonable manner. It's great to find comfort in things we are familiar with. It allows us to be vulnerable.

Late or Missing Reponses

If you still would like to write a response for October, I'd be happy to recieve more. If you sent me a response and I missed it, please email me directly at pablo@lifeofpablo.com. I'll update this post.

November IndieWeb Carnival

Now, I will pass torche to Alex Sirac. Alex is writing on community and belonging for the month of November. C'est parti !

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